NLP: How can you communicate with your kids in public?

            Before becoming a father, I had seen people widening their eyes if their kid behaves in a particular way. If that does not work, they go near the kid and whisper in their ears and if even that doesn’t work they would raise or lower the voice. I used to put myself in their place and realize that it is pretty awkward situation. Well, when I became a father; I realized that I am in the same boat and I wanted an efficient way to communicate with my daughter in public.

            Being a student of NLP I thought of applying NLP and life. As NLP works well with the unconscious, I thought it might be very effective with kids and yes, my guess was appropriate.

I came up with various sound anchors for my daughter. I started with one and reached up to 10. All these sound are from the rhymes that my daughter listens. She loves all of them. I have practiced them with her at home multiple times and now she exactly acts according to the anchor. Sometimes people wonder how I suddenly made an irrelevant sound but that’s ok for me.

            Anchors also work very well in elimination of habits. My daughter had a habit of sucking thumb. She does it even today once in a while. I have installed a sound anchor to take out her thumb from mouth. Any time, when I make that sound she takes out the thumb immediately. Which the help of this anchor I was able to effectively help her to keep her thumb out of the mouth and she stopped doing it.

            In Indian culture there are many helpful anchors installed and there are also few not so helpful anchors. Our logical minds are uninstalling many of them. Every day, we also install many more anchors and uninstall few. It’s important, which one are being installed or uninstalled.

Well anchors have many more applications and we have many anchors within ourselves that are helpful and few that are not so much helpful. The more we are aware of them the more we can use them effectively. We may also install anchors if needed and can eliminate when not much helpful.

Long ago, I had seen a video where a NLP master who helped a lady to drive at higher speed. Entire session was just 40 minutes and within 40 minutes she could drive well. Well, I couldn’t believe it then. Recently, I helped one of my clients to drive well on highways. He had same challenge of speed and that was eliminated in just one drive with him in less than 50 kilometers. I also helped one more client sometime back as she had fear of driving. She had learnt driving but didn’t drive at all. Just one session could help her to drive comfortably. Next week I shall tell you a story of one of these two clients.

You may or may not have challenges above and you may use anchors to enhance your efficiency, to build rapport, to enhance communication and much more. If you know NLP, as you read this post, I would wonder if you are thinking creatively about applications of anchors in daily life and if you don’t know NLP, you would be curious to know what anchors are and how to apply them effectively. Stay in touch!
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